Tying the spiritual world to the physical world is
essential when considering the questions at hand.
Beliefs and values develop as a result of our
interaction with this world. What we eat, drink, see, hear, taste,
smell, and feel creates memories. These memories come with attachments
that are called emotions. Memories get stored, sorted, categorized,
compared, associated, and weighed.
Emotions are the essence of how we communicate and
interact with this world, and the spiritual world. Angels and demons
motivate, and communicate to us through our emotions. When an
experience happens to us that is so disturbing, in direct conflict with
that of our values and beliefs, a spike in emotions takes place creating
an enormous amount of power to be stored. When this happens the
experience gets a high weight value placed on it. When emotionally
disturbing values are in the top ten of our experiences we can easily
develop disorders affecting the quality of life. Mental illness is what
the real world (physical world), calls these results, and to the
spiritual world this would be called being possessed by demons.
Emotionally disturbing experiences, over time, just
like a physical battery, will discharge. Unfortunately, until now, this
natural discharging process took months, years, or a lifetime to take
place. By studying the Master at removing demons from those that were
possessed, mentally ill, I have been able to reproduce the process of
discharging the stored energy of a spiked emotion in a matter of
minutes. This enables a person to take control over their life and to
create a new normal.
It is essential at the moment of discharge to give
direction, a new focus, to those that were impaired through goal
setting, proper diet, rest, subconscious state control and
conditioning. Happiness is a choice!
Matthew D.
Dovel
International suicide prevention expert
Trainer and instructor
Smile therapy
EMR chart (Emotional Memory Remover)
**EMR chart, and smile
therapy (not recommended for extreme emotional experiences;
rape, molestations, witnessing a murder or other extreme
violence, etc.)
It is recommended that
a one on one session with a trained EMR specialist be used if EMR chart
and smile therapy do not have the intended results.
Not free, but all profits go to support
ISP (Intl. Suicide Prevention)
http://www.supportisp.org (call or email for
pricing).
Workshops
“Happiness is a choice” - Workshop
90 minutes with interactive question and answers.
“Warning Signs” - 90 minutes Suicide
awareness and prevention training
Limited to 20 people, Learn how we get
emotional attachments that can cause suicidal thoughts, includes
a one on one session with trainer to remove stored emotional
traumas.
One on One EMR session
Two day session to
work with an EMR specialist to eliminate trapped emotions causing
undesired behavior; sleeplessness, suicidal thoughts, depression,
P.T.S.D., and other disorders.
Two weeks of follow up
work to insure a new normal with coaching on new conditioning.
EMR trainer
Learn how to become an
EMR specialist. Four days of training, with three months of
support to insure that methods are sound and ethical.
*All transportation, lodging and meals to be
provided by clients.
To schedule a workshop, one on one
EMR session, or Certification in EMR.
Suicide Prevention Solutions
Website:
http://www.suicidepreventionsolutions.com
Email: sps@suicidepreventionsolutions.com
Call 702-743-4340
Know "WHY"
to Prevent a Suicide!
A message from ISP (International
Suicide Prevention)
Facts on Suicide
- Over 90 people commit suicide in the USA everyday.
- More people die by suicide than murder or AIDS/HIV.
- For every suicide there are 25 attempted suicides.
- It is estimated that 80% of all in home suicides are being
cleaned up by a family member due to a lack of funds, or because of
the guilt and shame they feel, they can not bring themselves to
include one more person in their very personal tragic situation,
including an insurance adjuster.
- Once a person cleans up a suicide scene of a loved one, they are
in the highest risk group for future suicides.
- They are now 75% more likely to commit suicide later on in life
than the general population.
- Of all suicides, 75% of them have told someone of their
intentions.
Know WHY about
suicide!
If you learn WHY you
will save more lives than “CPR” or the “Heimlich Maneuver”.
WHY stands for the
three rules to prevent a suicide:
- W - Warning signs
of suicide.
- H - How to help
someone that is suicidal.
- Y - You will
personally make a difference.
The two main reasons for people to attempt suicide are because of
romance problems and/or financial issues.
So, if you know someone that has just recently experienced a
breakup of a relationship, or the loss of a job, following three
simple rules called, “WHY” can save a person’s life.
Human beings have a tendency to associate their self-worth &
identity with their possessions and positions in life. Romance and
finance can give individuals a false sense of control, power or
security. When either one, romance or financial, situation changes
drastically, some individuals will experience a feeling of being out
of control, powerlessness, and in an identity crisis.
The top warning signs of someone that
is contemplating suicide are:
- They tell you that they want to die, or simply say that they
cannot do it anymore.
- They give away prized possessions.
- They are suddenly happy after a long period of depression.
- In youth, 10 to 18 years of age, depression is mostly expressed
through apathy.
Help:
If you know that someone is suicidal, and you do not know
what to do, call 911. It is better that someone be mad at you for
awhile than for you to be attending their funeral in a few days.
Watch:
If you know that someone just found out that they are
breaking up from a relationship, just be fired, laid off, lost money
in the stock market, etc., the first forty-eight hours is crucial for
them to process the change in their value, status, and self image. It
is imperative that you do not leave individuals alone during this
process as they my act out in a knee jerk reaction to a major life
change, such as already stated. If after forty-eight hours they are
not accepting the change, then you need to get them professional help.
Listen:
Listen to what people have to say without wanting to fix
them. By allowing someone to verbalize the thoughts in their head,
without judgment, will allow them to see that there is another way.
Questions:
We have control over two things in this life: what we focus
on and the intensity of what we are focusing on. Getting an individual
to change their focus off of a suicidal thought is easily changed
through questions. Asking a person a question will immediately
redirect their focus to a new thought, requiring considerable effort
to return to thoughts of suicide.
Looking forward, not backwards:
Those that are suicidal tend to live in the past, not able to
see tomorrow without their identity. We can only have one thought at a
time, so getting another person to set a goal is a good way to move
their focus off of what is, to what will be.
Rising suicide rates:
Suicides are on the rise. There are four main causes driving
social issues that address our culture negatively today: they are the
uncertainty over the price of gas, the collapsing housing market, the
over all economic recession, and the on going war. These issues affect
all classes, races, and creeds. To add pressure to these uncertain
times, we are having an election year with those running for the
office of president of the United States of America offering no clear
course of action or solutions. This information was collected through
individuals nationally that are experiencing suicidal thoughts and/or
depression that can lead to a suicide attempt.
So, how do we deal with living in uncertain times all the while
keeping our sanity? The rules that follow are to change your focus off
of things we have little or no control over:
- Have a life plan that is reviewed every six months.
- Have at least five goals that you are working on at any given
time that are realistic and obtainable.
- Eat healthy meals and get your rest.
- Spend time sharing how you are feeling with someone everyday.
- Plan something you can do that is fun at least once a week.
- Get outside at least once a day and take a walk.
Murder suicide:
With over ninety suicides happening everyday in the USA, it’s
hard to believe that most, if any of them, rarely make the evening
news. As horrific as an individual committing suicide is, they do not
even compare to murder suicides. Murder suicides are when one family
member kills another family member(s) (including children, even
newborn babies) and then they kill themselves. Murder suicides can
also be described as when a disgruntled employee or someone with a
grudge goes to a place of business or gathering of large groups of
people killing as many as possible and then themselves.
What is the thought process of an individual that could carry out
such a heinous task and how can we prevent future tragedies?
- Individuals that carry out a murder suicide within a family can
not see anyone else other than themselves in the position they hold
within their family unit. This is their identity and purpose, and if
they have the thought that they may be replaced in reality or
through a hallucination, it can lead to a psychotic episode. This
episode can lead to the thought that if they can not be with those
that they love and control, no one else will be with them either.
The decision to kill and act out murdering another family member can
happen within minutes or days of a fight or after a conversation
that has finality. Once the act has been completed, murder, they
realize what they have done was insane and now they no longer have
what they have been living for, giving them no other choice but to
commit suicide.
- Identifying individuals that have problems with control issues
are not hard for those that live with them. They are rigid in their
thinking and insist that everyone in there family adhere to their
beliefs, morals and values. Anyone that thinks differently than them
can be physically or verbally abused. These behaviors can be
symptoms of mental illness and professional help should be sought
out immediately.
- Sometimes people can fall into these controlling behaviors
through environmental conditioning over time. There is hope for them
if they are willing with behaviorally change techniques, therapy
and/or treatment.
It is very important that we do not put any individuals that carry
out murder suicides in the same category as a person that commits a
lone suicide by themselves or a suicide pack. Murder suicides are
motivated by homicidal thoughts, seeing others as the problem and
getting rid of the other person as a solution. These individuals are
often described as being selfish, controlling and rigid in thought and
behavior that can also have abusive physically and/or verbal
histories.
Individual suicides:
Suicides are motivated by those that see themselves as the problem,
not others. People that commit suicide are generally loved by many and
are often described as kind, gentle, caring and sensitive individuals
that will be missed.
Suicide packs:
Suicide packs are when two or more people that are suffering either
physically and/or emotionally, conspire to die together rather than
live without each other.
Learn how to save a life today, before it is too late!
Developed by: ISP (International Suicide Prevention), a nonprofit
501(c)(3) public charity.
To learn more facts about suicide, go to:
www.supportisp.org.
NOTE:
This information does not represent a therapeutic
recommendation or prescription. For specific information and advice, consult
your physician.
